When Life (including intimacy) Becomes All-Business

  "How do I tell my boyfriend he's been laid off?" - Fishbowl Consulting, June 2024 


Most the responses to that post on a professional anonymous network are clever in tone and content. That is that they piggyback on the assumption that the business-management model can be leveraged in matters of the heart. 

This is not unusual. And it could be one of the drivers of the profound loneliness we are experiencing. The isolation ethos is straight from the Beatles song "Eleanor Rigby." 

In what are supposed to be intimate conversations the accepted template is to use the principles, words and tone of commercial transactions. Like Father McKenzie, putting together sermons which don't engage, the supposed romantic partners are in disconnect, as displayed in The Lovers card from the Tarot.

As a Tarot reader specializing in careers what clients want to really focus on are broken romantic relationships. Many actually use the buzzwords "lack of communications." But when I ask them how the speak with one another, the narrative usually gets stuck in business terminology ranging from "investment" and "inputs" to "power" and "strategies." There is a hardened inability to retrieve the language of the heart. For example, "I feel hurt when ..."

Before the search of a relationship even begins, those seeking intimate companionship can put a fridge the reminding note: "This is not business." 

In business and life you usually have only one shot at whatever. Up the odds of success with Jane Genova. I am a coach and content-creator. Complimentary consultation (please text/phone 203-468-8579 or email janegenova374@gmail.com)

 

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